Category: Book Quote of the Week

Don’t Dismiss the Simple Answer

Don’t Dismiss the Simple Answer

During COVID, I read a number of business and professional development books for my work. Some were useless, some where somewhat helpful, and others were excellent. The quote I want to analyze today is from “Tools of Titans” by Timothy Ferriss. I don’t recommend Christians run out and buy this book. But it had a few helpful takeaways, one of which I want to present to you today on the subject of looking for the simple answer.

“Tools of Titans” is essentially a book of interviews. The author interviewed people from every type of industry to get their thoughts on life and work. In one chapter, a quote stuck out to me that I still continue to think about after I finished the book:

Be sure to look for simple solutions. If the answer isn’t simple, it’s probably not the right answer.

Tools of Titans, Tim Ferriss

What the quote means

Complicated does not mean better

I am an over-thinker. When I have a problem, I want to go through every possible cause and effect and analyze each detail of the problem and potential solutions. This quote was a helpful reminder that I should look for the simple answer to my problem rather than something convoluted and complex.

This quote is essentially a re-statement of “Occam’s razor” which, in the scientific community where I work, means you generally choose the simplest explanation for a phenomena. Now, that does not mean the world is not complex or that sometimes a more complicated solution is necessary. It simply means a simple answer is normally easier to understand and test. This is because the simpler a solution is, the less assumptions you generally have to make.

The point here is in a complicated, dynamic world, a simple answer should generally be preferred over a complicated answer. As an over-arching principle, I think this is helpful even if sometimes you need to embrace complexity in certain situations.

Don’t make things complex for their own sake. Simplicity makes things clearer.

Why it is important

Seeking the simple answer can bring clarity to your life

More than ever, you and I live in a world of decisions. When you go to the grocery store, there is not one brand of cereal; there are 10 brands to choose from. You are told from a young age to live your dreams and be true to yourself, yet half the time you aren’t even sure what you want or what you want to do with your life. In an era of maddening choice, the simple answer can bring clarity.

And Scripture is full of simple answers. The Bible is complex, yes, incredibly detailed and profound. However, a lot of “life’s big problems” are given surprisingly simple answers in Scripture. Here are a few examples:

  • How can a person be saved? “If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” Simple belief in Jesus changes a soul’s eternal destiny.
  • What does the Lord require of me? “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets.” Simply loving the Lord and loving others are the two main principles revealed in the whole Old Testament.
  • How do I deal with all the fear and anxiety I struggle with? “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” The simple antidote to anxiety is prayer and thankfulness to the Lord.

And those are just a few off the top of my head. Scripture answers some of life’s tough problems and choices with a “simple answer.” Notice, simple does not mean easy to live out or easy to believe as true. But there is a refreshing clarity with which Scripture speaks on these issues. Just look at the book of Proverbs: in single sentences God communicates life principles to live by. They are simple, memorable, and proven throughout history.

Takeaways

1. When Scripture gives a simple answer, prefer it over the wisdom of the world

Scripture is often mocked by unbelievers in light of the complexity of the world. How can you believe repentance and faith in Jesus can make a difference in this world full of suffering? How can the gospel be the answer to all of humanity’s many complicated and multi-faceted problems? Why do Christians constantly give the answer “trust and wait on the Lord” to so many life circumstances?

People often resist the simple answers of Scripture because they are humbling. Most people (including myself) love being the “problem solver.” The person who through their great intellect and will makes the world a better place. But the Bible offers a humbling and pride-crushing worldview: humans are so completely in love with their own sin and rebellion that it took God Himself stepping into time and dying in order to save us. God brings salvation. Salvation is of the Lord. Not of man.

The answer the gospel gives to humanity’s problem is “look to Christ and live.” It isn’t try harder, be better, or work your way into a better future. The wisdom of the world would have you spend your whole life on these things. Thankfully, when Scripture speaks about life in this world, it speaks with a simple clarity that runs to one person: Jesus. He is the answer. So, when asked to make the choice between the different convoluted and contradictory solutions the world give to the problem, run instead to the simple clarity of Scripture.

2. Giving simple answers to other Christian’s problems might be the best thing for them.

In the “Tools of Titans” section this quote is taken from, there is a helpful example of the simple answer being the right one. How do you stay healthy and fit? As a kid, your probably got an answer like “eat your green vegetables.” A simple answer. Maybe as you grow up, instead of accepting this answer, you try out half a dozen diets and eating fads. Then it hits you: the simple answer your mom gave you as a kid was probably the right one all along (or at least a good summary of all the different diets).

Now, how do you apply this principle to your interactions with other Christians? After listening to another believer’s problem or struggle, take them back to the simple commands and promises of Scripture. The Bible has actual answers to our difficulties. And in God’s wisdom, these answers are generally direct and easy to understand. In our flesh, however, we often resist the answers God gives or question if God’s answer is the best one to give.

  • If someone shares with you their struggle with anxiety, isn’t it trite to say “be anxious for nothing?”
  • When someone is struggling with not having a spouse, is it helpful to remind them “godliness with contentment is great gain?”
  • Love your enemies? Aspire to live a simple and godly life? Pursue holiness? How can all these be the answers to our complicated life circumstances?

The problem is not with the simple commands and promises of Scripture. It is our own sinfulness and lack of faith which makes them seem insufficient.

God has given His people everything they need for life and godliness. That is a simple truth from 2 Peter. The question is, like all of Scripture, do you actually believe and trust the simple truths God has given you in His word? And if you trust them at a personal level, will you share those truths with other believers? Don’t be ashamed to give simple answers to other people’s struggles if those answers are from Scripture. Of course, you should be thoughtful and careful and loving in how you communicate Biblical truths. But if the answer God gives really is simple, don’t over-complicate things.

3. “What does God want me to do with my life?” probably has a simple answer.

The Christian University I attended for college often communicated to it’s students something like “go out, do big things for Jesus, and change the world.” It sounds good and inspiring, but the first question which comes to mind is “how?” No answer was given, and if students came up with their own answer, it often involved either making a lot of money, getting some level of fame, or dropping everything and going overseas for missions.

There are certain seasons of life, like post-college, where the question of “what should I do with my life?” becomes a constant one in your mind. And for good reason: no Christian should want to waste their life or make bad use of the time God has given them. But here is the reality: you don’t need some complicated plan to glorify God with your life. The simple answer to “what does God want me to do with my life?” is day-by-day faithfulness. You can become frozen trying to decide what you want to do until you accept the simple answer Scripture gives: “whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”

A lot of your problems in life come from not accepting, trusting, and living out the simple truths, promises, and commands of Scripture.

God’s word speaks clearly in our complicated world. It brings a singleness of purpose which nothing else in the world can give. If the simple answer is the right answer, seek those simple answers from Scripture. Don’t dismiss them. Your own convoluted understanding of life and events will probably end up leading you astray. God’s word, on the other hand, is a “lamp unto your feet, and a light unto your path.”

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Cultivating an Others-centered Mindset

Cultivating an Others-centered Mindset

I don’t think I need to argue that human beings are naturally self-centered. It isn’t for nothing that the Bible says to “love your neighbor as yourself” and “in humility consider others more important than yourself”. Our natural bent is to self-love and preoccupation with our own needs. So how do you cultivate an others-centered mindset?

It is not easy. But this past week I read an excellent little book that has a chapter which speaks to this issue. The book is called “The Hidden Art of Homemaking” by Edith Schaeffer. Don’t let the title fool you: the book is a marvelous study of how everyday activities can become God-honoring, creative expressions for the Christian. It addresses both men and women and I highly recommend you read it. One of the latter chapters contains an excellent quote which I want to look at today:

We produce the environment other people have to live in.

Edith Schaeffer

What the quote means

Your behavior has a definite effect on others

What I love about this quote is it awakens a new awareness: your behavior directly affects other people. Your behavior makes part of the world other people have to live in. The main point of this chapter in “The Hidden Art of Homemaking” is you can positively and creativity add good to another person’s life. How you act, your attitude, what you value all create an environment other people have to live in.

Put another way, nothing you do is “neutral”. Everything you do, everything you are, affects the people you come in contact with. If you are always sad or dour or depressed, it isn’t just “your problem”. Edith Schaeffer gives the example in the book of a coworker who is always complaining. After talking with such a person, do you ever feel motivated in your own work?

On the other hand, if you interact with a joyful person, a motivated person you yourself often start to feel motivated and more joyful. You daily, moment by moment create a little “world” by your behavior, character, and values which other people enter and interact with you in. Your life has an active role in the lives of other people.

Why it is important

An others-centered mindset means noticing how your behavior affects other people

If you are aware that your personal behavior creates an environment for other people to live in, it becomes easier to become others-centered. The awareness that you are moment by moment having an impact on other people’s lives (whether you like it or not) causes you to start asking the question “What kind of environment am I creating for this other person right now?

As Christians, the type of environment you should want to create is clear: a Christ-centered, God-glorifying, holy and beautiful environment. It can become very easy to not even think about how your life affects other people. But once your mind grabs on to the idea that you are continuously creating the environment other people live in, you can start actively and intentionally shaping that environment.

An “others-centered mindset” starts with realizing other people exist around you and that your behavior impacts them.

Personally, this quote from “The Hidden Art of Homemaking” has made me more aware of people around me. Rather than just thinking of myself and how I feel in every single social interaction, I start asking myself “Am I creating a Christ-centered environment for this person? How can I better this person’s life in a small way with this interaction?”

Takeaways

1. Remind yourself that you are commanded to love others as yourself

It is not enough to simply realize your life affects others. You must also remember Scripture’s commands with regards to how you treat others:

  • Love your enemies.
  • Outdo one another in showing honor.
  • Forgive as you have been forgiven.

Cultivating an others-centered mindset does not just stop with creating a “positive environment” in interacting with others. There is nothing overtly Christian about a “positive environment.” Your interactions with others must be in obedience to Scripture’s commands in order to truly have a “positive” effect on those around you.

Don’t settle for “positive interactions.” Pursue loving, Christ-centered, God-exalting interactions.

And I don’t think it is a stretch to add that loving, Christ-centered, God-exalting interactions often include explicit discussion and sharing of Scripture.

2. Take a thoughtful and active role in your interactions with others

I am more and more convinced that having an others-centered mindset means taking the initiative when interacting with other people. You pursue the other person. You start the conversation. When there is a lull, you keep the conversation going. You ask insightful questions to get to the heart whatever issue you are discussing.

If it is true that you and I create the environment other people live in, then we probably should become more thoughtful when we interact with others. Personally, I have thought more about how my daily behaviors (even in the little things) affect my wife. How are my actions creating a Christ-honoring environment for her? Am I acting in a way that is making it easier for her to live in obedience to Christ or harder?

And once you do that reflection, you can actively pursue an environment you desire. In the case of my wife, it might mean asking her spiritually-focused questions. Or it might mean giving up my own desires to serve her around the house. An others-centered mindset takes responsibility for the part you play in the lives of others. I would argue this mindset starts and primarily plays out in the home: how you interact with your spouse and children.

3. Realize every interaction is a God-given opportunity

Probably my favorite takeaway from this Edith Schaeffer quote is the exalted perspective it gives to the mundane. You interact with dozens of people daily. Oftentimes, they are not “important” people like Presidents or world leaders. They are also often not “important” interactions. It might be a few minutes here, a conversation there, or a chat over a meal.

But once you realize you are creating the environment other people live in, even little interactions become opportunities. You stop going from one thing to the next aimlessly. Every single time you cross paths with another human being, God is giving you an opportunity. The question is will you take advantage of the opportunity or not? If you truly believe that God is absolutely sovereign, there are no accidental interactions.

So have thoughtful and prayerful interactions with others. Don’t let opportunities pass you by. Every day you contribute to the life, environment, and world of other people. Choose, in obedience to Scripture, to make that world more holy and God-glorifying through your actions, values, and words.

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